18 Tips for Relocating Abroad in 2023
After having dedicated years to nurturing and guiding their children, empty nesters often find themselves standing at the threshold of change once their children have flown from the familial nest. With a newfound abundance of time, freedom, and liberation from the day-to-day demands of parenting, it is not uncommon for empty nesters to yearn for change and exploration.
This transitional phase becomes an opportune moment for self-discovery and redefinition, where we choose to reimagine living spaces, pursue long-postponed dreams, rekindle relationships, delve into hobbies, or even embark on career shifts. The desire for change becomes a natural extension of our evolving identity.
It was in mid 2017, that I decided to follow a lifelong dream that led to my current life in Europe from Southern California. As empty nesters, the idea of moving to a new country, or city offering opportunities and experiences that are outside of those available in our current home, remains one of the top five goals many wish to accomplish before it’s considered too late.
It is estimated that there are 8.7 million Americans (excluding military) living in 160-plus countries outside of the United States. For those who have the opportunity to take the leap and relocate to another country, there are nuances and expectations that must be considered and addressed prior to moving, to ensure a smooth transition. Moving to a new country is a significant life change that requires careful planning and preparation.
Top 13 Countries with the most American ex-pats
- Mexico 799,000
- Canada 273,000
- United Kingdom 171,000
- Germany 153,000
- Australia 117,000
- Isreal 77,000
- South Korea 68,000
- France 62,000
- Japan 58,000
- Spain 57,000
- Italy 54,000
- Philippines 38,000
- New Zealand 36,000
There are several reasons why empty nesters are choosing to move abroad, whether for overall quality of life or desire to explore a new culture, preparation is key. As I write this blog post there are several countries undergoing major changes to visa requirements, along with changes to tax requirements that will affect one’s decision to relocate. It is important to consider all life changes and practices before making the leap abroad.
First, no place is perfect, and cultural changes and adaptation can be extremely difficult, especially if moving alone to a city where you know only a few people, or don’t know anyone at all.
Moving Abroad as a single person?
There are many things to consider if moving abroad as a single woman, especially if you desire to move to a country that holds a more traditional viewpoint. It is not uncommon to feel unheard and disregarded when trying to get basic needs met in countries where men are considered heads of household and primary decision-makers. You can run into situations where minor repairs around the house/apt take longer and your request are taken lightly because you’re a woman. Preparing yourself for such situations is of the utmost importance.
If moving to a country where you don’t have many or any contacts can be challenging when a single person, especially if their is a language barrier. Preparing for those challenges ahead of time, by joining facebook group for that particular country can prove helpful.
Moving abroad with a partner?
While moving with a family can be easier on your mental health from the standpoint of having a support system, there still remains many things to consider and prepare for prior to making the move. For example, understand power of attorney laws, what happens to health insurance, bank accounts, home purchased together, etc., if we seperate while living abroad. This is something not talked about enough, but is extremely concerning amognst people who are trailing partners.
Here are 19 tips for relocating abroad in 2024, that will help ease your anxieties and prepare you for the ups and downs of moving to a new country:
1. Visa and Immigration:
- Research visa requirements and eligibility for your desired country. While the world has gotten much smaller and we are more connected through social media than ever before, visa requirements are continuously changing. Make sure to stay up-to-date by following the immigration website for your desired country and joining Facebook groups specific to that country.
- Apply for the appropriate visa or residency permit well in advance, especially if your country of choice is one of the “hotspot” countries, like Mexico and most recently Portugal.
- Ensure your passport is valid for the duration of your stay.
2. Financial Planning:
- Create a budget for your new life abroad, considering the cost of living, housing, daily expenses, and taxes. Always factor in taxes when looking at your budget and overall cost of living.
- Research the requirements for opening a bank account prior to moving.
- Notify your home bank about your move and set up international banking arrangements if necessary.
3. Housing:
- Research housing options (rent or buy) in your destination country. There is currently a major housing crisis in many of the “prime” countries, so be prepared to pay double if not triple security payments if renting.
- Consider temporary accommodation upon arrival, but do know some visas require you to have a permanent address by a specific date.
- Ensure housing contracts are in order and understand local rental laws.
4. Healthcare:
- Research the healthcare system in your new country and consider health insurance options.
- Gather medical records, prescriptions, and essential medications and find out if they will be available in your desired country, prior to making the move.
- Find local healthcare providers, and hospitals and research the process for making an appointment or being seen on an emergent basis. You can also learn more about healthcare by perusing Facebook groups specific to your desired country.
5. Legal Documents:
- Gather and notarize important legal documents (e.g., birth certificates, marriage certificates, wills). Some countries require documents be notarized by the office of the secretary of state, research beforehand.
- Obtain international driving permits if needed. Most countries have a time frame in which residents must obtain new or transfer their international licenses.
- Update or create a will to reflect your international assets. A will or power of attorney is extremely important, especially if you will live alone.
6. Taxes:
- Understand tax obligations both in your home country and the destination country.
- Seek advice from a tax professional to navigate tax matters.
7. Language and Culture:
- Learn the local language or at least some basic phrases. There is a belief that when it comes to learning a new language or adapting to new environments, most Americans are entitled and move with the expectation that people in their adoptive country should speak English. That kind of attitude will guarantee an extremely challenging transition.
- Study the culture, customs, and etiquette of the destination country. Understanding the practices and traditions of your home country is the first step at ensuring acceptance into your desired community, and decrease culture shock as you know firts hand what to expect from the society you wish to engage.
8. Employment and Income:
- Research local job opportunities or set up remote work arrangements.
- Ensure you have the necessary work permits or visas for remote workers.
9. Personal Documents:
- Make copies of important personal documents (e.g., passports, visas, driver’s licenses).
- Scan and store additional copies in a secure location. Also, leave a copy of all personal documents with a family member or friend back in your home country in case of emergencies.
10. Insurance:
- Consider international health, travel, and property insurance.
- Ensure your current insurance policies (e.g., life, auto) are updated and valid abroad.
11. Relocation Services:
- Consider hiring a relocation agency to assist with logistics and paperwork.
- Arrange for international shipping of belongings if needed, and seek out the best service and quote by asking those already living in your desired country (Facebook groups are extremely helpful).
12. Social and Support Networks:
- Establish a support network in your destination country, such as local contacts or expat groups.
- Inform family and friends of your contact information and emergency contacts.
13. Travel Plans:
- Book flights and accommodations during the exploration phase, which should be nine months to one year before making a decision to move, staying at least 2 weeks, near or in your desired city.
- Make arrangements for transportation from the airport to your new home.
14. Pets (If Applicable):
- Research pet import regulations and quarantine requirements.
- Arrange for pet transport and vaccinations.
15. Culture Shock and Adjustment:
- Be mentally prepared for cultural differences and potential culture shock. It can take years to adjust to your new home, especially if you’re moving alone. Understanding the society you are moving into prior to moving is crucial for your mental health and quality of life abroad, especially if you are one who require friendship and connection with your community.
- Seek support and counseling services if needed no person is an island and should never feel shame for wanting to connect with those in your new home.
16. Emergency Preparedness:
- Familiarize yourself with local emergency services and contacts.
- Have an emergency kit with essential supplies.
- Provide instructions to a loved one back home, and someone in your immediate circle in your new home, specifying who to contact in case of death or situations where you’re unable to advocate for yourself.
17. Finances and Taxes:
- Understand currency exchange rates and the local banking system.
- Notify tax authorities in your home country about your move.
18. Travel Insurance:
During your exploration visit, consider purchasing travel insurance that covers health, belongings, and trip interruptions.
Remember, specific requirements and considerations may vary depending on the country you are moving to, so it’s crucial to research and plan thoroughly, prior to deciding on a country. Seeking advice from expats who have made a similar move can also provide valuable insight, something that is made easy by joining Facebook groups where expats share information that you would not know during a visit, or speaking with people who have not lived in your desired new home.
